Redefining Love Coaching Program

Your path to healthy happy love.

Is what you’ve been doing really LOVE???

If you’re a person who was taught to sacrifice yourself for others in hopes they would love you, then let’s get busy REDEFINING LOVE.

Redefining Love replaces unhelpful patterns like people pleasing, perfectionism, and codependency with the confidence, security, and freedom that

only self love can give you.

Outgrow Your Programming

The families we grow up in, shape who we are. As children, we master the culture of our families, quickly figuring out how to behave to stay safe and connected to the people we love. We learn to hide who we really are while showing up how our caregivers want us to BE.

It can be a painful process leading to entrenched patterns of dysfunction such as people pleasing, perfectionism, and codependency.

What did you learn in relationships growing up?

If you lack a sense of wholeness, or if you’ve ever had thoughts such as I’m not good enough, flawed, alone, unworthy or undeserving, bad, too much or a burden, then you’re living with the results of faulty programming.

In other words, false beliefs about yourself, beliefs that have the power to influence the quality and direction of your life.

Those untrue ideas limit you. They keep you stuck in a loop of anxiety and fear. They keep you from knowing and expressing yourself authentically.

It’s time to outgrow those old patterns and discover the power and peace that a solid sense of self can give you.

I help people shed the faulty stories they unconsciously adopted growing up.

This frees them to embrace an authentic and conscious life, one that’s true to the valuable and beautiful human they’ve been all along.

The Redefining Love Coaching Program in three easy steps.

  • Step One: Assimilate the Past

    Unearth what’s been hidden. Become deeply familiar with your current reality. Seeing and naming your patterns of thought and behavior so well that continuing to live from them is no longer an option.

  • Step Two: Align with a New Truth

    Discover the power of shifting your energy and step into the truth of who you are. Consistently create life from your own inner compass. Connecting to your truth, your needs, your desires, your capacity.

  • Step Three: Allow What Is

    Begin meeting yourself and the world with acceptance. Responding from choice and not habit. Living from the platform of worthiness and what is right for you, rather than hustling for other people’s approval.

The Redefining Love coaching program is a transformational individual coaching experience. It’s a safe space to grow beyond who you’ve been and changes how you do relationships.

~From T.H. Madison, WI

“The biggest thing that changed for me was how I responded to myself when I felt a difficult emotion. I realize that I have a choice to respond differently. Just by noticing the physical sensation and then extending love and kindness towards myself, this shifted the intensity of the emotion. I could then see if this was an old pattern and most of the time it was. Feeling more empowered and learning a way to show compassion towards myself in difficult times is helping me move toward my goal of trusting myself and feeling more confident.”

~From Anonymous

“Lori's ability to create a safe and supportive space where I felt comfortable exploring deep, personal insights was really valuable to me. Her blend of compassion and accountability really stood out, helping me stay on track with the program while feeling understood and encouraged.”

~From H.M. St. Paul, MN

“Lori helped me articulate a vision for the future. She then helped me work through blockages that were holding me back -- she is very skilled at this. Working with Lori really helped me determine next steps -- steps that were in alignment with the new life I am creating. I also noticed that with her support and guidance, it was easier and it felt more natural for me to step out of my comfort zone. This meant that I began taking bolder actions in the direction of my vision. It's fun to see how quickly things can change when you really come into alignment with your vision.”